• Home
  • About Us
  • Programs
  • Local
  • Giving
  • Contact
Marriage
Parenting
Giving

 

Son Shine Ministries is celebrating a milestone20 Years as Accredited Members of the ECFA (Evangelical Council for Financial Accountability).

 

The ECFA provides a deeper level of accountability, and its seal certifies our ministry's commitment to honoring the Lord and our donors by our use of their gifts. One of Son Shine Ministries' core values is stewardship, a commitment to honor God by our use of time and resources. We are committed to transparency, authenticity, and accountability.

 

Check out this link to review Son Shine Ministries' member profile on the ECFA website: https://www.ecfa.org/MemberProfile.aspx?ID=6090

 

 

Truly Being Heard

Researcher John Gottman has identified conflict avoidance as the #1 predictor of a failed marriage. As Son Shine Ministries actively trains on communication and conflict resolution, one of the most important skills needed is active listening. When done well, it communicates respect and makes your spouse truly know he/she is heard.

 

Active listening begins when your spouse shares with you something of importance, including the emotion connected with it. After listening intently, you then paraphrase back to your spouse what you heard, identifying the emotion that accompanied it. This is not the time to express an opinion. The key to this stage is to make sure your spouse is truly heard. The next step is that the original "sender" evaluates the paraphrased response, fine-tuning it to make sure he/she is truly understood. In conflict resolution, it is important for both spouses to take turns doing this before possible solutions are discussed. Besides escalating initial reactions, it is in the active listening step of paraphrasing where we often see couples go off course. Active listening is a learned skill (i.e., it takes practice).

 

Jeff Daly's oft-quoted statement, "Two monologues do not make a dialogue," is true, but two monologues (with active listening) often begin a dialogue. Communication is vital in relationships. Is this a strength in your marriage? What small thing could you do today to improve it?

 

Son Shine Ministries|P.O. Box 456, Azle, Texas 76098-0456|(817) 444-3777|info@equipfamilies.org
Facebook Phone Email
©2019 Son Shine Ministries - All Rights Reserved.
Website by NetMinistry